To be truly non-judgmental, stop being judgmental about those who are judgmental
Feb04

To be truly non-judgmental, stop being judgmental about those who are judgmental

 If we are judgmental, we make snap judgments about people. We blame them for actions that were almost inevitable for them…

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Passing blame is easy but disempowering, accepting responsibility is tough but empowering
Dec12

Passing blame is easy but disempowering, accepting responsibility is tough but empowering

Whenever things go wrong, our mind naturally looks for a scapegoat. We want to blame others because it seems to be an easy …

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To be nice is not to be naive —  it is to be free from the control of vice
Oct08

To be nice is not to be naive — it is to be free from the control of vice

Some people say, “If you are nice, you will be exploited by others.”  They equate being nice with being naive, with …

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The desire that the dark be darker defines a dark mind
Mar10

The desire that the dark be darker defines a dark mind

Suppose we know that someone is short-tempered. Suppose further we hear through the grapevine that they have assaulted…

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16.02 Even if people are not faultless, we can still find faults less
Dec20

16.02 Even if people are not faultless, we can still find faults less

When we find faults with others, we are often told to not have a fault-finding mentality. In response, we may defend ourselves,…

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To know people’s backgrounds means to know what’s on their back and what’s under their ground
Jul04

To know people’s backgrounds means to know what’s on their back and what’s under their ground

If we see someone walking with drooped shoulders, we might judge them as lethargic – till we notice that they are carrying…

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