The starting point of happiness is selflessness

We all seek happiness – and we all do various things to become happy. Today’s materialist culture, especially with its stress on advertisements, makes us believe that happiness comes from acquisition.

But unfortunately no matter how much we get, we get some superficial titillation at best – we never get any meaningful or lasting happiness. Pertinently, the Bhagavad-gita (16.11) states that when we make material gratification our definition of happiness, we set ourselves for anxiety – unlimited, unending anxiety.

Why anxiety? Because material things are external to us and are not in our control; the prospect that they may be taken away from us at any moment fills us with insecurity.

Moreover, because most other people are also materialistic, they too crave for material things. As material resources are finite, the ensuing competition for limited material things further heightens our anxiety.

Thus, when we buy into this definition of happiness in terms of possession and gratification, then we get caught in a black hole of self-obsession wherein we find neither happiness nor peace – we get only craving and worrying.

Happiness lies in the opposite direction – not self-centered possession, but selfless contribution. The happiest people are not those who are worrying about what they are getting – the happiest people are those who lose themselves in giving themselves in some noble pursuit, a pursuit in accordance with their God-given gifts. The noblest such pursuit is the pursuit done in mood of selfless devotion to the one who is the source of our talents.

Selflessness doesn’t mean that we don’t care for ourselves – it means that we care for something bigger than ourselves. God is the biggest such cause and he is the source of all happiness and the well-wisher of everyone. By working in a mood of selfless service to him, we find life’s greatest fulfillment.

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God acts through us and beyond us – and always for us
God is the cause of all causes, but not the cause of all effects
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  1. Very beautifully explained.

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  2. Absolutely great message
    Thank you CCD

    Hare Krishna

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  3. People from top to bottom are in anxiety because they are selfish and continue to collect and grab material things by doing evil things to others.

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  4. I am so grateful, messages are clear, explicit, logical and so convincing
    thanks you for sharing

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  5. Thank you so much Chaitanya Charan Prabhu. Your card deck of 365 quotes led me to this article, to be led further into yet another series of mesmerizing spiritual thoughts. Really an inspiring article.

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    • Dear Srivas Chandra P. Thank you for sharing your comment – delighted to know that the quote based on the Gita has helped you come to, which I hope will help you come closer to the Gita and to Krishna.

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