Be childlike, not childish

Children have a charm to them. They have an innocence and freshness to them that lightens and brightens the world around them. They bring out the gentleness even among people who are rough and tough.

Their charm notwithstanding, children are naïve and can be irresponsible. They can be easily misled and cheated. They can also act as per their whims and do things that are mischievous or even dangerous. Though they rarely mean any harm, they can frequently do harm, to themselves and to others. That’s why parenting is a round-the-clock job, which requires protecting children not just from others but also from themselves.

Children become adults not merely by growing biologically, but primarily by growing emotionally and intellectually. Whereas children may consider their toys the most important things in the world, adults know that many other things are much more important. Adults are responsible – they can put things in perspective and respond maturely without getting carried away by small things. While gaining maturity, however, adults often lose the innocence and sweetness of childhood; life’s adversities often make adults cynical and manipulative.

If someone can integrate the innocence of childhood and the maturity of adulthood, they would be loveable, reliable, admirable. Such are the saintly people, who are the well-wishers of everyone (Bhagavad-gita 12.13). Their consciousness exists at the spiritual level, which transcends all bodily stages. At the spiritual level, they can manifest virtues that integrate the best of both childhood and adulthood. By virtue of their purity, the goodness of the soul manifests in them, unsullied by the mind with its impurities. By virtue of their devotion, the goodness of God manifests through them, unsullied by worldly calculativeness.

The saintly are innocent, but not naïve; mature, but not cynical; childlike, but not childish. They reveal the potential that that we all can tap by growing spiritually.

Think it over:

  • What is good and not-so-good about childhood?
  • What is good and not-so-good about adulthood?
  • How do the saintly manifest the best of both childhood and adulthood?

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  1. CHILD is the FATHER of man

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  2. Beautiful article. A fine glorification of the saintly devotees.

    I especially loved the line: “The saintly are innocent, but not naïve; mature, but not cynical; childlike, but not childish.”

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